The saying that nice guys finish last needs to be corrected. It's more about the aggressive guys who gets the prize because being passive or getting cold feet will get you nowhere. It kinda sucks when you really want something but are afraid to go after it. Still if you're going to hesitate and don't go for it, you might wind up regretting it for the rest of your life. When it comes to losing out because of cold feet, the song "Wag Na Lang Kaya" by True Faith comes to mind.
I know this song is about being afraid to approach a crush but if you ask me it can applied to other situations where people want to something so bad but hesitate. Whether it is a person, a job etc., how much you want something depends on how determined you are to get it. Being passive or simply longing for something or someone is not get to get you that which you seek. Don't be sore if because of your hesitancy the thing/person you long for goes to someone else. The one who works hard for it gets the prize and the loser has to accept it.
Crying sour grapes won't ease things either. If you really want it, then do all that you can to attain it. Things don't last forever and before you know it, it's gone. After that you may wind dying in your bed every night from regret. So go after it while you can and don't let anything hold you back.
I know this song is about being afraid to approach a crush but if you ask me it can applied to other situations where people want to something so bad but hesitate. Whether it is a person, a job etc., how much you want something depends on how determined you are to get it. Being passive or simply longing for something or someone is not get to get you that which you seek. Don't be sore if because of your hesitancy the thing/person you long for goes to someone else. The one who works hard for it gets the prize and the loser has to accept it.
Crying sour grapes won't ease things either. If you really want it, then do all that you can to attain it. Things don't last forever and before you know it, it's gone. After that you may wind dying in your bed every night from regret. So go after it while you can and don't let anything hold you back.
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