You know things are perfect when you have nothing to hide from each other. When you can openly express what you feel and both of you are honest with each other. Once you start doing things behind other people's back, then things start to change. You think you can hide for a long time but eventually it will come out and it could wreck everything that you built. The season about having no secrets with each other is bests summed up in the song "No Secrets" by Missing Persons.
The hard thing about having secrets means that there is no trusts or in some cases there's something you don't want others to know. Those secrets are like cracks on a house. They get bigger and bigger when someone gets wind of it. Eventually it wrecks everything and affects everyone connected with it in one way or another. What's worse is the fact that a person kept that secret is a lack of trust and that really offends the person that you're with.
Sometimes it's best to come clean with it. At least they know and telling them is a sign that you value their counsel. Better nip it at the bud while you still can. When you do, don't do it again. Keep on the straight and narrow cause it's not worth keeping secrets that could tear things apart.
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