Lately, I'm still getting that nagging question "Why are you still single at your age?" I wish they'd read some of my earlier entries to get the answers. Apart from personal and family issues, getting into a relationship sure is a pretty tough deal. You really have to be ready to give it your all when you're in it. Otherwise, you're just wasting your time. One of the important things that you have to prepare for is pleasing that special someone. When it comes to pleasing people, reminds me of the song "If That's What It Takes" by Micheal MacDonald.
Trying to find what makes that special someone tick is probably the first thing you have to do. How do it is up to you but what's important is that you know what it is. After that, are you committed to doing what it takes, especially if it is a pretty tall order. If you're willing to go for it, then do so. If not, at least you know you're limits.
No matter how smitten you are, there are times when you have to be realistic. Maybe you can please that person but it will do no good if you loose yourself and everything you hold dear in the process. When that happens then it's not worth it. There are other choices out there if you look harder. At least they won't demand too much from you when you try to please them.
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