Let's face it: not everybody wins at love. If there are winners, then there are also losers. You can try to fight for that heart all with all your might, but if it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. As much as it hurts, you have to face the sad fact that she or he isn't for you. When you do accept it, let them go and walk away. I got that concept from the song "I Won't Stand In Your Way" by The Stray Cats.
You can already tell the signs that it's not going to work out when things are being forced which should never be the case between two people. There should also be no secrets between them and when you feel that they're hiding something, it's a sign that cracks are starting to appear and are getting bigger. The worst part is when the other becomes cold to you and has that longing look on their faces which should make it clear that they're not happy and you'll be unhappy pretty soon as well. When the signs appear, it's best to call it quits because it's not working out. Better nip it at the bud before things get really nasty and nobody wants that.
In some ways, parting ways is also a strong jesture of love because in doing so, you're giving that other person a chance to be happy and you also get a chance as well. I remember when Wolverine voluntarily left Mariko and when they asked him why he did it, he said because she asked him to and he believes that strengthens love no matte how much it hurts. It takes a big heart to make such a sacrifice for the ones they care about and that's a very good example. They that love is free and it was meant to be, it'll come back to you even if you let it go and I believe that. In the end, give them a chance to be happy with other people and maybe you'll find what's meant for you so let them go and wish them well.
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