Thursday, February 12, 2009

How Far Are You Gonna Go And What Are You Prepared To Give



People who say that love is easy are lying. Falling in love is one thing while winning and staying in love is another. I got that from a comic strip I read about a father lecturing his son about the responsibilities regarding falling in love and getting married. It's a big responsibility which doesn't seem so because some people are prepared to for the long run which is one of the reasons why they stay together for the long run. It's only when you're willing to make changes and sacrifices does love come easy. That's what I think when I hear the song "Love Don't Come Easy" by White Lion.

Falling in love always starts out as fairytale but when reality sets in, the thrill starts to disappear. Even at the start it isn't easy because you got to prove that you're worth it and that's gonna be difficult because there's going to be a lot of competition out there. When you finally won that person's heart, that's just the begining. The real test is if you are prepared to do to make it last for the long run. When you're willing to stick it out during the bad times as well as the good, it's a sign that you really love that person. When the storm has passed, then love comes easy.

Nothing comes easy in this world and the sooner you know it, the better you can prepare for it. Like everything else, I've learned that you have to go all out if you really want it. You even have to do better if you want to keep what you've gained. A lot of people who learned that are now reaping the fruits of their labor and nobody should bug them about it. I just hope that I able to do just that while I still can because it's not always easy.

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