Lately, I've been watching the series "Cheaters" religiously and is fast becoming one of my guilty pleasures. I guess because unlike other reality shows, this exposes cheating for what it is and those who cheat regret their actions. Still, sometimes there's that the cheaters find in their companions that they can't find with their spouses. The song "Run To You" by Bryan Adams makes me wonder what it is that makes them do what they do.
Based on what some some suspects confess on the show, they get something from that other person that they can't get from their partners. For others, they feel there that they get neglected or fire simply, died out. Whatever the reason, when the urge gets to them, run to their "others". Even when the love that they get from their spouses is true, it's different from what they get when their with someone else. Whether it's love or not, they keep coming back for more.
Still, the bottomline is that this is wrong. I'm no expert but there is such a thing as talking about it and for that to happen, let alone be successful, both sides have make the effort. I'm no expert but there must be something missing or something wrong which led to this development. Still, it's no excuse for cheating and hurting your significant other. They maybe dull or have gained some weight over the years but they have always been there through good times and bad. Two wrongs don't make a right which is why cheating is still wrong. You have problem, run to them not to someone else because one you might have no one to run to.
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