Obsession: If You See Kay By April Wine

As I've said before, if men are lady killers, then women are man eaters. Like their male counterparts, when they worked their magic you, you're hooked. Once you're hooked, they take possession of you from your mind down to your heart. When you start thinking about them every hour and minute of the day, you know you're obssessed with them. That kind of obsession reminds me of the song "If You See Kay" by April Wine.

Sometimes, it happens in a flash and other times, it happens slowly but surely. Either way, you'll be dancing on the strings that they put on you. You don't care about anything anymore and the next thing you know, you're she's the only that's inside your head. Then comes the part where they drain you of all that you have and worse all that you are. When it's over, you're left somewhere at the side of the road all wasted and used up like empty soda can.

I guess that's why I try to be very careful when it comes to relationships. It's not that I'm a coward but these a lot of men and even women look out themselves in the most vicious way. A friend of mine went through that and he almost lost everything including himself and fortunately, he got himself together before losing it all. That's why I'd be very careful with such vain creatures. It's obsession I could definitely do without.

When You Think About What Could Have Been: What Could Have Been: Just Between You And Me By April Wine

For those who lost out on love, that can really take a while to get over. Especially when you felt sure that person was the one. One minute you thought you're on top of the world and all of sudden, you're sent crashing down the hard solid ground. Times like that, a talk with your best bud over a brew sure helps soothe the pain. That's the reason why I chose April Wine's song "Just Between You And Me" for this post.

Well when you're in love with someone, you think that alone is enough and you've sealed the deal. Then things go astray and what started out good has gone bad and you're left wondering where did all go wrong. Then reality dawns in and you have face the facts that it was just not meant to be. Sad as it is, life doesn't always turn out the way you thought it would. You have to accept it no matter how hard it is.

Well, all I can say about that is give yourself some time to get over it. Times like that, it would be great to have your best bud who you can say things you can't to other people (even family). A brew and a few 24K tunes and some good talk may do mend the broken heart and dull the pain. There were good times and you'll always have that. Talking about it with a trusted friend sure helps one get over the hurt over thinking about what could have been and more importantly, look forward to a new start.